
Getting into a relationship is all part of being human. In the immortal meditations of John Donne, No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less...any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind...
Yes, involved in mankind, the deeper the involvement, the deeper the pain when the relationship ends and let’s face facts, it all comes to an end. Often enough when that happens, we take the most destructive route to healing, destructive both to ourselves ...